I’m a Christian and I think ‘Noah’ deserves a four star review

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Outstanding review of Noah.

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On Friday, my wife and I had a very rare date night.

Naturally, we decided to spend it being pummeled by the blaring condescension of the most insipid, absurd, unimaginative, clumsily contrived piece of anti-Christian filmmaking to come along since, well, probably just last week.

In fact, if I learned anything from Noah, it’s this: despite popular perception, you can often judge a book by its cover. Also, giant deformed rock monsters make for awkward supporting characters.

We’ll meditate on that second item in a moment, but it’s the first point that should be especially emphasized.

Christians: you’ll hear people insist that you can’t criticize the movie until you’ve seen it. Noticeably, the loudest voices in this camp are the ones who will (rather coincidentally, I’m sure) profit immensely if you meet their challenge.

Don’t.

Don’t bother.

You can hate this film without watching it, for the same reason…

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The Hole in The Reversal of World Vision

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Since I reblogged part one in this saga it is only fitting that I reblog the sequel.

Missional Meanderings

Well that was fast.  Shortly after the news of World Vision’s decision to redefine marriage and hire same-sex couples, they now have reversed that decision. On one level that is fine and good.  I am glad they did it but I am not impressed by it.  Consider how it is framed:

  • “they made a mistake. . . .”
  • we were merely trying to serve the poor but in the process “we failed to be consistent with World Vision U.S.’s commitment to the traditional understanding of Biblical marriage and our own Statement of Faith”
  • “We are brokenhearted over the pain and confusion we have caused many of our friends, who saw this decision as a reversal of our strong commitment to Biblical authority. We ask that you understand that this was never the board’s intent.”
  • “While World Vision U.S. stands firmly on the biblical view of marriage, we strongly affirm…

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Conscious Uncoupling?

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At first glance I thought conscious uncoupling was a railroad term where by rail workers had a plan to uncouple train cars.

Shall we consciously uncouple?

Shall we consciously uncouple?

But no, that bit of psychobabble is a nice sounding couple of terms for getting a divorce. This I discovered from reading a blog article written by Jessica Grose in Slate Magazine. 

Conscious uncoupling are the terms Gwyneth Paltrow used to describe her split from husband Chris Martin.

Paltrow and Martin made their announcement of a conscious uncoupling and released an essay by two psychobabbler’s to explain what the unusual terms meant. Here’s a summary from Ms. Grose’s blog:

The gist of the essay—by Habib Sadeghi and Sherry Sami, doctors who integrate Eastern and Western medicine—is that the institution of marriage hasn’t evolved along with our longer life spans. Divorce doesn’t mean your relationship wasn’t successful, they say. It just means that this particular relationship has come to its conclusion; you may have two or three of these successful relationships in a lifetime. Instead of a typical, rancorous, regular-person separation, you just need to have a “conscious uncoupling.” You need to be spiritually “present” and recognize that partners in intimate relationships are our “teachers.” You need to “cultivate” your “feminine energy” to salve any wounds.

Frankly, I don’t know where to start with that baloney. So, to help me out a little I googled Dr. Habib Sadeghi and found his “be hive of healing” website.

The good doctor (and his cohort Dr. Sherry Sami) appear to be big deals in the health industry and appear to represent some sort of cutting edge combination of western and eastern healing practices. The eastern part seems to be the spiritual part. For those of you who don’t know what that means think “new agey spirituality.”

Dr. Sadeghi seems to be a rather popular fellow and his website boasts that he has achieved “miraculous” results with his methods. He has been employed at more than one well-known university. I can see why Paltrow and Martin engaged in this sort of name-dropping. It certainly gives the appearance of “following doctor’s orders” or perhaps that should be “following the high priest’s orders?”

Ms. Paltrow is an idol to many. The fact this story is a big deal in the news cycle is proof that many people really do seem care what goes on in the personal relationships of the Hollywood elite. The fact that Paltrow and Martin are fans of new agey gurus is an idolatry of another sort. The fact their spiritual advisers (advertised freely) are welcomed on campus is interesting given that on most campuses traditional Christianity is not.

Perosnally, I could care less what the Hollywood elite does or who they follow spiritually. I would not expect non-Christians to make Christian decisions. What does bug me though is the number of people who look up to Ms. Paltrow as some source of cutting edge truth and in turn would look up to her gurus who use nice language to disguise the tragedy of divorce and a further undermining of marriage.

There is nothing new under-the-sun, just a repackaging of old ideas that are given medical sounding labels. The apostle Paul warned the Colossian Christians of finding value in any such system:

See to it that no one takes you captive by philosophy and empty deceit, according to human tradition, according to the elemental spirits of the world, and not according to Christ. (Colossians 2:8 ESV)

I’m really not all the familiar with Slate Magazine nor the author of the blog, Jessica Grose. But I do agree with Ms. Grose’s comment that as an aspirational idol women can do better than Gwyneth Paltrow. Yes indeed.

 

The Real Hole in The Gospel

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From my best friend and Sr. Pastor. I recommend his blog.

Missional Meanderings

Well, the news has hit that World Vision’s president,  Richard Stearns, has announced that World Vision is redefining marriage as either one man and one woman, one man and one man, or one woman and one woman.  So now, a so-called Christian organization has made a decidedly non-Christian decision.  There are many who have and will weigh in on this subject so I will merely give a few thoughts on this situation:

In his interview to Christianity Today he argues that this “very narrow policy change” will be an example of the pursuit of Christian unity. He makes the point that same-sex marriages are tearing apart churches.  Of course he fails to answer the real question of if that is a good or bad thing.  I think that the bible is abundantly clear that the gospel has a separating quality because it calls people to turn from themselves and their…

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A few comments on ghosts and spooky things, ok, more than a few…

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A number of years ago when I worked in industry one of my co-workers told me the following story.

He had grown up in rural North Dakota in a small farming community. He said that his small town was religious meaning that they believed in God and that all three denominations represented there got along very well. My friend was maybe two generations removed from his immigrant forefathers as was most of his community.

He said that once when he was a boy he attended a funeral in a person’s home (common in rural communities especially in the 1940s and 50s).

After the service while everyone was chatting there came a number of sharp raps on the door. The door was answered and no one was there. The night was very cold, but there was no wind.

A  seance. In the late 19th Century and early 20th Century spiritism was popular both here and in Europe. The vast majority were clever frauds if not all. In some circles it  is still popular and quite contrary to what the Bible teaches.

A séance. In the late 19th Century and early 20th Century spiritism was popular both here and in Europe. The vast majority were clever frauds if not all. In some circles it is still popular and quite contrary to what the Bible teaches.

The universal interpretation of the event was the rapping had been done by the recently departed. My friend shared the story in all sincerity knowing I was Bible student and wanting to know what I thought.

It is very difficult to diss someone’s personal experience meaning their interpretation of the event but I told him the following.

My mother also grew up in a rural area and she too was one generation removed from her Polish-German roots. My mother told me almost the same story that my work friend did.

I have not done extensive research on folklore but over the years have heard numerous variations on my friend’s and mom’s stories. It suggests European tradition within a culture or sub-culture that assigns to the dead the ability to say good-bye to loved ones and give them assurance that all is well.

I had to tell my friend that I could not argue with his experience but that the Bible gave no indication that the dead had that kind of ability. He shrugged and that was that.

On another occasion with another co-worker I heard the following.

We worked 3rd shift, also known as the graveyard shift. No pun intended.

My friend lived with his girlfriend and obviously third shift meant leaving her alone.

The day after the Easter weekend he told me that his girlfriend had been wakened in the middle of the night. On top of her was a short ugly being trying to strangle her.

She fought the hideous creature eventually knocking it off the bed and on  to the floor where it knocked over a fan as it ran down the hallway.

Remarkably, she pursued the creature into the bathroom where it vanished into thin air.

When my friend came home that morning he found his girlfriend curled up in a ball clutching her 2nd grade Catholic Catechism.

He then related to me other phenomena that occurred in their apartment such as decorative plates being taken off stands and laid down and him feeling the presence of his father who had died in a horrible accident when he was a boy.

I offered to visit with him and his girlfriend in order to share the gospel. I had been sharing the gospel with my friend prior to this anyway and it seemed that whatever had happened to his girlfriend her greatest need was Jesus not an interpretation of what happened.

The twist on this story was that my friend seemed open to gospel. He interpreted his girlfriend’s experience to his being open to the gospel. His response was to back off our conversations and so declined my offer to visit with both of them.

The movie Ghost from the 1980s starring Patrick Swayze and Demi Moore was widely popular. It combined the popular notions of the dead returning to say good-bye and give comfort as well as evil spirits coming to take evil people away. I recall it as being an entertaining, non-biblical movie.

The movie Ghost from the 1980s starring Patrick Swayze and Demi Moore was widely popular. It combined the popular notions of the dead returning to say good-bye and give comfort as well as evil spirits coming to take evil people away. I recall it as being an entertaining, non-biblical movie.

My arguments to the contrary failed to convince him that Jesus was more powerful than anything he or his girlfriend may have experienced.

Shortly after that episode I had an experience that I cannot explain.

The place where we worked had a large store-room behind the work shop. To get there you had travel past another larger work area and pass through two heavy doors. The store-room was a two-floor cavern and was populated by huge shelves and bins where parts were stored. We had to take parts from time to time and place them in the proper bins and I was on such a mission when the experience occurred.

I entered the storeroom and had to depart from the main aisle to find the appropriate shelf. When I found the right bin I suddenly and distinctly heard whispering in both of my ears! The words, if you could them that were unintelligible, but it did sound like multiple voices have a bit of a chat!

I was quite alone! The hair on the back of my neck stood up and I sensed a panic attack setting in as I grasped in vain for a rational explanation.  As if that was not bad enough  I heard a part slide across the floor on the other side of the shelf in the main aisle where I had just been. I immediately departed the area glancing at the main aisle and sure enough a part was on the floor where none had been previously.

I ran back to our work area in the hopes I’d find my two co-workers in hysterical laughter at the joke they had pulled on me. No such luck. They were sober and one remarked that I looked like I had seen a ghost. I related the story and they both came to the conclusion that the place was haunted.

The one who had been in the department  the longest told of the janitor who had been killed horribly by a fork lift truck as the driver made his rounds with the forks up-skewering the unfortunate janitor (a true story I discovered). The interpretation of my event was that the janitor haunted the place. This interpretation was confirmed by a 2nd shift co-worker who said in all sincerity that he had seen a monk like figure appear in the restroom. He connected the apparition to the deceased janitor.

Virtually all American Civil War battlefields carry with them stories of ghosts often accompanied by pictures, sometimes of orbs, sometimes of images of soldiers. A whole industry has grown up around it. The base belief seems to be that people who die horribly due to some trauma wander between two plains of existence until they find peace.

Virtually all American Civil War battlefields carry with them stories of ghosts often accompanied by pictures, sometimes of orbs, sometimes of images of soldiers. A whole industry has grown up around it. The base belief seems to be that people who die horribly due to some trauma wander between two planes of existence until they find peace. http://www.angelsghosts.com/civil_war_cemetery_ghosts.html

The commonality in these three stories is the interpretation that the various people put on the experience.

In the first case an interpretation that the dead return to say good-bye and in the second case evil spirits will torment loved ones because someone becomes interested in Christ.

In my case my co-wokers interpreted my experience to the ghost of a janitor who died horribly. That interpretation fits with the traditional interpretation that people who die in wars or other tragic circumstance sometimes wander between two planes of existence. Take a tour of Gettysburg and learn of the battle there and you will hear more than one story and some will even have videos.

My interpretation of my experience would have been an over active imagination combined with tiredness working at 3 a.m. in the morning had it not been for the part sliding across the floor and resting where there had been no part before.

Because of that I had to modify my interpretation to I cannot explain the experience in a rational, alternative way.

I can tell you what I did next though.

My friends saw my fear, a fear I readily admit. They knew I was a Bible student (very early in my education) and they expected me do something. I had the choice of cowering in our work area or I had the choice to return to the storage area. I knew I had to return to the storage area or lose all credibility with my two co-workers. I knew enough to not go unarmed. I went to the following passage in the Bible I kept in my toolbox:

Finally, be strong in the Lord and in the strength of his might. [11] Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the schemes of the devil. [12] For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the cosmic powers over this present darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places. [13] Therefore take up the whole armor of God, that you may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand firm. [14] Stand therefore, having fastened on the belt of truth, and having put on the breastplate of righteousness, [15] and, as shoes for your feet, having put on the readiness given by the gospel of peace. [16] In all circumstances take up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming darts of the evil one; [17] and take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God, [18] praying at all times in the Spirit, with all prayer and supplication. To that end keep alert with all perseverance, making supplication for all the saints, [19] and also for me, that words may be given to me in opening my mouth boldly to proclaim the mystery of the gospel, [20] for which I am an ambassador in chains, that I may declare it boldly, as I ought to speak. (Ephesians 6:10-20 ESV)

I am not certain this was the best passage to go to but it is the one that came to mind, especially verse one and being strong in the Lord. I believed that and with the following verses understood that the Christian’s ultimate battle was against the unseen spiritual things or powers is the way Paul puts it.

I took a few minutes and studied the passage and prayed it best I knew how. I knew that if these things\experiences were real then God allowed them for his reasons. I also knew that the demonic cannot stand against Jesus. I didn’t know much at that time but with that I returned to the storage room.

I cannot explain it but upon entering it was just like any other visit to the store-room. No whispering, no hair standing up on the back of my neck although the part was still on the floor. I returned it to a bin. I came back to our work area and muttered something like, “whatever it was, it’s gone.”

These three stories came to mind as I posted the story that appeared on this blog yesterday-the story of the glass shattering caught on video and the comments debunking the incident as a fraud.

A few observations are perhaps in order here.

1. I think we live in a culture that is increasingly non-Christian (meaning non-gospel centered) but  is still vaguely spiritual and as a result sometimes accepts frauds because it wants to believe in things hard to explain like the video I posted yesterday.

2. I do not see that necessarily as a bad thing as long as it leads to truth as found in Holy Scripture.

3. The Bible does teach the reality of demonic spirits if you take the texts at face value and I do. C.S. Lewis deals with it masterfully in his classic Screwtape Letters.

4. The gospel accounts illustrate the Lord Jesus dealing with the demonic on more than one occasions and the apostle Paul (as cited above in Ephesians) also thought the demonic was the real deal. That is more than good enough for me.

5. It is popular today in church circles, especially liberal ones to dismiss the devil as myth. When they do this they ignore or rewrite Scripture. I do believe there is a right way to interpret Scripture and about 100 wrong ways to interpret it.

6. The Bible condemns divination and the “inquiring of the dead” thus raising the possibility of it being a real occurrence with some sort of real results (King Saul had a witch call up Samuel the prophet\judge. This may be the one time God allowed the real deal, meaning Samuel, to appear, all others being demonic impersonations of the dead.) Anyway, here is  the command to not do such things…

There shall not be found among you anyone who burns his son or his daughter as an offering, anyone who practices divination or tells fortunes or interprets omens, or a sorcerer [11] or a charmer or a medium or a necromancer or one who inquires of the dead, [12] for whoever does these things is an abomination to the LORD. And because of these abominations the LORD your God is driving them out before you. (Deuteronomy 18:10-12 ESV)

7. Whatever else we might say about these things Jesus spoke of a proper fear, in reality the only fear that matters in the end. This is what he said:

And do not fear those who kill the body but cannot kill the soul. Rather fear him who can destroy both soul and body in hell. (Matthew 10:28 ESV)

Jesus is speaking of God the Father and he is seeking to reassure the disciples that while persecution may take their lives (tradition holds that 11 of the 12 were martyred) their mission was still the gospel and their loyalty to it no matter what they may face.

8. There are plenty of things to fear, including spooky things, but it is the gospel that casts out fear because stronger is he that is in you (if you are a gospel-centered Christian) than he who is in the world. (1 John 4:4)

9. I think many phenomena are not really phenomena but fraud. It’s good and right to be highly skeptical of such things.

10. Somethings are the result of cultural tradition and wishful thinking. I think there is also what is called syncretism. Syncretism in a Christian sense is the combining of Christianity with pagan ideas and beliefs. Just because Constantine declared the Roman Empire Christian does not mean everyone became a genuine Christian. Much tradition and pagan belief became part and parcel of average person Christianity. Halloween tied to Roman Catholic All Saints Day is one such obvious example where you have Celtic ghosts integrated into the overall holiday.

11. As I ponder these things I am forced to come back to my source of truth. I believe that the Word of God is truth when rightly divided (interpreted, 2 Tim. 2:15). Without a reliable source of truth we are left to imaginations, traditions and wishful thinking. Jesus is the truth, the living Word of God and if you believe that it seems critical to believe in what the Bible has to say about these things and not go beyond it in speculations.

Supernatural Doings Caught On Video At NH General Store

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This is an interesting video of the type of I’ve seen before. It’s convincing especially if you are predisposed to believe in ghosts. One debunker wrote this: The bottles are clearly drug off the table from the top using a string. These bottles appear bottom heavy and if they were pushed from the top of the bottle, we would see them crash and break on top of the table. If they were pushed from the bottom, they would slide tilted backward for a second before falling toward the floor bottom side first. What we see is the top of the bottle flying toward the floor first. Implying that someone tugged on them with string – through the window at the other side of the room.

All right then, you decide.

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Store Surveillance Footage Shows Ghostly Activity

Ghostly Prescence NH Store

” A New Hampshire store owner is starting to believe in the supernatural after she had a ghostly encounter in her store that was all caught on tape!

  The surveillance video from the Ellacoya Country Store in Gilford NH shows a glass tray thrown from the table after the employees leave the store.

  After the tray crashed, a store employee, Heidi Boyde, runs back into the room to investigate and found the glass shattered all over the floor.”

Read more here and see the unedited raw video here

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Book Review_Faith and Feelings

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I think that one of the challenges for a biblical counselor is ministering to the person who has been heavily psychologized and tends to live by their emotions as if emotions were centers of truth. More than once over the course of many years of ministering to people I’ve said, “I do not care what you feel, but do care what you believe.”

Of course I do care about what a person may feel but it’s important for that person to come to terms with the fact that emotions are but one aspect of the soul, are God-given, and designed to illustrate what is going on in their soul (heart). That thought is usually counter-cultural and for many a paradigm shift in their thinking.

In Faith and Feelings: Cultivating Godly Emotions in the Christian Life Pastor Brian Borgman has written a useful book that lays out a biblical doctrine of emotions.

The first part (Parts 1 & 2) of the book lays out a biblical foundation for understanding our emotions while the second part of the book (Parts 3 & 4) is application as Pastor Borgman discusses the emotions common to man in depression, sinful anger, fear, worry, anxiety, unforgiveness and bitterness. Part 4 is the application of cultivating Godly emotions using Jesus as our model and then the importance of biblical thinking.

I think it’s important to qualify Pastor Borgman’s use of terms “Godly emotions.”

The expression at face value seems to indicate that positive emotions such as joy, a sense of contentment or happiness are automatically “Godly” while the negative emotions like fear, anxiety, sadness (depression) and discontentment are “ungodly.”

The feelings wheel used by AA. http://aca-arizona.org/feelings-wheel/

The feelings wheel used by AA. http://aca-arizona.org/feelings-wheel/

All of our emotions are God-given and in and of themselves are neither Godly or ungodly. Emotions serve or function as warning lights like the lights on the dashboard of a car. They tell you something about what is going on under the hood. What may be going on under the hood may be Godly or ungodly and that’s why the person needs to give the inner man a good hard look especially when the emotions are chronically negative.

To be fair here Pastor Borgman would not argue with me on this and probably consider my point to be a quibble. Fair enough.

As I said I found the book useful especially because it fills a needed niche in the biblical counseling world and so “liked” means to me recommended. The book is well researched, well foot-noted and has a Scripture index.

I got my copy at Faith Baptist Church in Lafayette, IN. It’s one of the best biblical counseling bookstores around. Faith Baptist Bookstore link

Words of Bitterness

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In the 1992 movie The Last of the Mohicans there is a powerful scene after the women and British officer Duncan are taken captive by the Hurons who are allied with the French in the French and Indian War, 1757.

Magua, the Huron war chief is trying to convince the Hurons to burn the captives at the stake. Daniel Day-Lewis who plays Hawkeye strides into the camp under the protection on wampum and insists on his right to be heard in the debate.

Wes Studi as Magua. He has just cut the heart out of his arch enemy Col. Munro. This act of vengeance ironically does not satisfy his thirst for revenge as he seeks to destroy Munro's daughters as well. That is the way of bitterness. Even when revenge is taken the bitter person is not satisfied.

Wes Studi as Magua. He has just cut the heart out of his arch enemy Col. Munro. This act of vengeance ironically does not satisfy his thirst for revenge as he seeks to destroy Munro’s daughters as well. That is the way of bitterness. Even when revenge is taken the bitter person is not satisfied.

He argues for clemency pointing out that the English would not forgive the atrocity of burning the captives at the stake and would seek their own revenge-a revenge the Hurons could not prevent.

Mague continues to argue and recounts how earlier in his life his village had been attacked by the English and their Mohawk allies. Magua lost his mother, father and family and he was made slave to the Mohawk, eventually pretending to be Mohawk in order to seek revenge when the opportunity presented itself.

Magua’s speech has all the hallmarks of an embittered person. He is so blinded by his thirst for revenge that he ignores what may happen to the Huron when the English seek their own revenge. Magua is consumed by own his own self-interest.

In an even more powerful speech Hawkeye argues that Magua has become the very evil that had caused him such pain in the first place. The main Huron chief who is listening to the arguments tries to make a decision that allows Magua to burn just the British officer Duncan but not the women. Magua storms out of the council meeting hoping to get a decision from the more western Hurons that will satisfy his thirst for vengeance.

The scene paints a powerful picture of what the Bible calls malice, a term that literally means “bad-heartedness” or “hard-heartedness.”

The term is used in Ephesians 4:31…

Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. (Ephesians 4:31 ESV)

The other terms in the verse lend weight as to what the bitter person looks like and acts like.

The term “bitter” is the bitter root from which wrath, anger, clamor, slander and malice come.

It’s a smoldering resentment directed against God’s sovereignty (whether the person realizes it or not) vertically speaking and horizontally against others.

Bitterness is like an acid in the person’s heart and is often reflected by a discontent spirit and a sour, crabby demeanor and scowl on the face. Bitterness is snake-bite venom rooted in the heart.

Wrath is a term closely related to bitterness. It’s almost as if the apostle Paul is putting further edge on an already sharp term.

Wrath has been defined as a deeply settled indignation that keeps on stoking the bitterness inside. Wrath is the everyday choice to keep the bitterness alive that seeks to punish just about everyone.  As a result most people do not want to be around the bitter person.

Anger might be described as the temporary explosion of wrath. If a person is chronically angry (or depressed for that matter) it reveals a bitter heart and a life that objects to the sovereignty of God (again, whether they know it or not).

Clamor, according to Pastor John MacArthur “is the outcry of strife out of control.” The bitter person wants everyone to know how bitter they are, how unfair life has been and how grieved they have been.  Clamor is another type of revenge that insists on being heard.

Slander is related to clamor, but it simply means “evil speaking.” It’s another type of revenge often in the guise of justice and self-righteous indignation. It’s speaking words that are intended to injure another and God says slander is reviling.

As a biblical counselor I’ve seen the damage that bitterness can cause. I’ve seen marriages fail, relationships shattered beyond repair and church’s destroyed because of bitter and unforgiving people.

apostle Paul is good at laying out the bad news about bitterness but he also good at laying out the solution that is found in the gospel.

Be kind to one another, tender-hearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.
(Ephesians 4:32 ESV)

The antidote to the poison of bitterness is forgiveness. The basis for forgiveness is what God has forgiven in Christ. The apostle Paul  echoes Jesus’ own words in Matthew 18:21-35 in what it means for a person to forgive from the heart.

More on that in Part Two.

Wars and Rumors of Wars

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I don’t know why anyone is surprised that Russia has gobbled up the Crimea. Just because Russia is not officially communist anymore does not mean they do not have national ambitions for territory. It amazes me that our current President seems to think that making statements about international law would deter an aggressor.

Russian Armored Personnel Carriers in the Crimea.

Russian Armored Personnel Carriers in the Crimea.

And that this occurs at the same time that the western democracies decrease their military forces strikes me as short-sighted and naive.

From a BBC story that says it means there will be no global US-UK. partnership like we've seen in the gulf wars. But it's not just the UK cutting back. It's the US as well as the Secretary of Defense recently stated. He wants to cut the US forces back to pre-WW2 levels. The Soviet Union, the Chi-Coms and other potentially hostile nations have no such plans.

From a BBC story that says it means there will be no global US-UK. partnership like we’ve seen in the gulf wars. But it’s not just the UK cutting back. It’s the US as well as the Secretary of Defense recently stated. He wants to cut the US forces back to pre-WW2 levels. The Soviet Union, the Chi-Coms and other potentially hostile nations have no such plans.

It reminds me of how the left vilified then President Bush for declaring that North Korea, Iran and Iraq constituted an axis of evil as if there were no such thing as evil. It’s almost as if we live in a sort of collective denial and that if we’re nice then so will the rest of the world be nice.

And let’s not forget the Jihadi nations like Iran and terror organizations like Hezbollah.

Hezbollah

Hezbollah

Jesus said there would be wars and rumors of wars in Matthew 24:

 As he sat on the Mount of Olives, the disciples came to him privately, saying, “Tell us, when will these things be, and what will be the sign of your coming and of the end of the age?” [4] And Jesus answered them, “See that no one leads you astray. [5] For many will come in my name, saying, ‘I am the Christ,’ and they will lead many astray. [6] And you will hear of wars and rumors of wars. See that you are not alarmed, for this must take place, but the end is not yet. [7] For nation will rise against nation, and kingdom against kingdom, and there will be famines and earthquakes in various places. [8] All these are but the beginning of the birth pains.
(Matthew 24:3-8 ESV)

Conflict is something that the world will endure until the end of the age. Until that time we would be wise not to let out guard down and realize it is not a safe world out there.

Heh mom, look up from your cell phone!

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Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it. (Proverbs 22:6 ESV)

This popular Proverb is often misunderstood to mean that if parents do everything “right” the child will turn out “right.” In some Christian circles it means the child is guaranteed to follow the Lord later in life if the parents take the right steps.

On one hand there is something encouraging about parents taking the proverb seriously and investing in their children. In that there is a connection to the New Testament command for fathers to bring their children up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord (Eph. 6:4).

The danger is in assuming a guaranteed outcome. Proverbs are not iron clad promises. They are observations that say something about probable consequences not guaranteed outcomes.

In Proverbs 22:6, “in the way” means the right moral orientation. It points to the kinds of conduct that please or displease the Lord (ESV Study Bible), such as the commandment for children to obey their parents. The training would include love and instruction but also the rod of discipline (Pro. 22:15), a concept scorned by modern culture as well as in some quarters of the church.

The take away for a New Testament Christian is to teach a child self-control and discipline pointing to the way which in a NT context means pointing to Jesus as a child learns and understands.

My grandson is about to turn four-years-old. His parents have diligently taught him self-control since he was about 6 months old. They are now doing likewise with a one-year-old daughter.

At first it was simple stuff using simple means that meant teaching him not to throw his food, scream for no apparent reason or whine when unhappy. As he has grown older he has learned more and more as his understanding has increased. No, he is not perfect, and they still have to be diligent but the results of their diligence is often obvious. I recall taking our grandson to MacDonald’s and he and I observing a boy of similar age misbehaving. My grandson (age 3 at the time) remarked, “that little boy needs a discipline.” Yes he did!

It’s hard work and means that parents must be diligent to take care of everything now as it happens, regardless of where you are. In other words do not ignore misbehavior, deal with it now, even in the middle of Target if you have to.We’re all familiar with the screaming kid at Toys-R-Us insisting on a toy while mom tried to bribe him down. Don’t be that parent!

A child that learns self-control at age 2 is more apt to learn about Jesus at age 4 than one who has no training. My grandson for example has an increasing awareness of God. He prays and learns verses in his Sunday School class and at home. Does he totally understand? No, but the ground for understanding has been prepared well.

Self-control can be taught at a very young age if the parents are willing to invest the time and energy to teach it.

The caption read: Spoiled brat Spoiled kids often develop into self-absorbed adults with a lack of self-control and a major sense of entitlement. No matter if your children are toddlers or teens, it isn't too late to stop spoiling them. From: http://www.sheknows.com/parenting/articles/980979/why-you-shouldnt-spoil-your-kids

The caption read: Spoiled brat
Spoiled kids often develop into self-absorbed adults with a lack of self-control and a major sense of entitlement. No matter if your children are toddlers or teens, it isn’t too late to stop spoiling them.
From: http://www.sheknows.com/parenting/articles/980979/why-you-shouldnt-spoil-your-kids Note: Not an overtly Christian website, but the article is full of common sense.

Parents that take Proverbs 22:6 seriously (and in context) are often blessed with the results, obedient children, who have been prepared for the necessary heart change and reception of the gospel when they are old enough to understand it..

All this came to my mind yesterday as I enjoyed some therapy for my knee.

As my therapist worked on me another therapist was trying to work with a five-year-old boy and his mother. (I knew he was five because I over heard the therapist ask.)

The therapist was kind and patient while the child was out-of-control. He simply would not listen to her patient easy instructions as she tried to help him with what looked like a foot issue. At one point he jumped up and ran over to the mirrors and proceeded to make faces. She simply could not hold his attention for more than a few seconds.

I commented to my therapist that her fellow therapist should get some kind of extra credit. She nodded and muttered something like, “ah yes, working with children” followed by discernible sigh. I took that to mean her fellow therapist drew the short straw that morning.

My therapist was right. Children are a challenge and they take time and energy and most of all diligence and it should not be the therapist’s task to get a child to exercise some basic self-control.

During the time all this was going on the child’s mom was immersed in her cell phone, barely looking up when her precious was acting out. There was not a word of correction (that I noticed) nor any kind of gesture that would indicate that mom even cared that her five-year-old son was running rough shod over a therapist trying to help.

I felt sorry for the therapist trying to do her job and sorry for the little boy. What I saw at the clinic was a reflection of what he didn’t get at home and that is enough love that meant correction when needed. What he probably would get by the time he was in first grade was a label.

Oh, Mrs. So-and-So, your little boy is ADHD. We recommend medication.

I wonder if at that point she’ll look up from her cell phone? Probably not. It’s easier to medicate than it is to invest the time and energy necessary to train up a child.

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